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8 Surefire Ways to Make New Friends in a Senior Living Community

Written by Allegro Staff Writer | Apr 23, 2024 2:22:00 PM

Starting a new chapter in a senior living community is exciting! Although senior living communities offer numerous opportunities to meet and socialize with new people, your first days there can leave you feeling a little bit like it’s the first day at a new school!  

Fear not, we have some pointers to help you make some new friends quickly in your senior living community home.  

8 surefire ways to make new friends in senior living 

1. Attend community events

Many older adults choose senior living communities because they are looking to connect with peers. Senior living communities like Allegro excel at planning social events for their residents. These communities often host various events and activities tailored to residents’ interests. Whether it’s a cocktail hour, shopping excursions, or movie night, participating in these events is an excellent way to meet like-minded individuals who share your interests. 

2. Have an open and friendly attitude

Remember, there are probably just as many seniors in the community who are as nervous about meeting new people as you are. One of the best ways to make new friends in your new community is to be approachable and friendly! A smile, warm greeting, and sincere interest in others go a long way toward building long-lasting relationships. Having a few icebreaker questions ready can be a big help, too. 

3. Stay physically active

Staying physically active is essential for your health and well-being and a great way to meet new people. Today’s senior living communities prioritize a healthy lifestyle. Residents have access to group health and wellness workshops, fitness classes, meditation, and yoga classes. Stay healthy and meet others in a group fitness or wellness class. 

4. Join some of the community’s special interest groups

Activities directors in senior living communities plan a busy calendar of activities that inspire creativity and encourage engagement so residents can quickly make friends. Check out the activities list and join committees and groups that meet your current interests. From travel clubs to wine and gardening clubs, there are plenty of group activities for seniors to meet and share interests. Is there an activity that you always wanted to try? This is your chance to try it out. 

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5. Volunteer

 Giving back to the greater community is not only the right thing to do, it’s also a great way to meet like-minded people. Many senior living communities have volunteer programs and opportunities to get involved with the local communities. Whether it’s organizing a fundraiser or volunteering at a local school or homeless shelter, volunteering can help you connect with seniors in and outside of your senior living community. 

6. Enjoy meals with others

Great food makes life more enjoyable and senior living communities meet this need with delicious chef-prepared meals and dining options for their residents. Meals are integral to senior living communities, providing an excellent opportunity to meet and socialize with fellow residents. Resist the urge to eat in your apartment; venture out and enjoy meals with other residents. Try different mealtimes and locations. Enjoy a quick coffee at the cafe, a healthy juice or light snack after a group workout, or a barbeque by the pool.  

7. Utilize the common areas

Most senior living communities have lounges, libraries, and game rooms. These spaces are designed to encourage social interactions. Visit these areas often, and don’t hesitate to converse with fellow residents. 

8. Be patient and sincere

Great friendships take time, so don’t rush the process. Don’t get discouraged if you don’t immediately connect with everyone you meet. Keep putting yourself out there and talking to people you may not have had the opportunity to meet otherwise. Most importantly, be yourself! 

Wrap-up 

Moving to a senior living community is a significant life change. However, it’s also an excellent opportunity to start fresh and make new friends. 

Attending community events, being friendly and approachable, and joining social interest groups will quickly expand your social circle. 

Embrace the social opportunities around you and enjoy the process of building new relationships as you embark on this exciting new journey. 

For more information on Allegro Senior Living communities, please get in touch with one of our helpful advisors! Download our free guide, “Choosing the Right Senior Living Community,” to learn more.